Dear Coleen,
I have been really stupid. I went to a party recently and
got very drunk and had sex with all the guys there.
There was porn on the TV and, stupidly, I decided to copy
it.
Now I’ve discovered that I’m pregnant – none of the men
there wore condoms.
I don’t know what to do about the baby but I don’t think
it’s sensible to continue with the pregnancy.
I obviously have no idea who the father is – he could be
any one of 25.
I feel very ashamed.
Coleen says
Your letter makes me really sad. I’m sad because you
think so little of yourself that you’ve allowed these men to use you.
You need to look at how much you’re drinking and the
people you’re hanging around with.
It also makes me angry that not one guy at the party
tried to put a stop to it and considered how you were going to feel the next
day.
You can’t change what happened but, hopefully, you’ve
learned a massive lesson.
You need to stop beating yourself up over it and focus on
what to do next.
Speak to your doctor about STI tests as well as your
options for the pregnancy.
I think you need counselling to talk about what happened
and whether you want to keep the baby.
Naturally you feel bad about what happened, but the important
thing now is to learn from it and move on.
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